Flora is one

 

It’s official: Flora is one!

Parents will tell you that every child has their own personality and siblings can be vastly different from one another. Now, a year into being Mom of Two, I see it’s really true. How do two children from the same parents have wildly different personalities and abilities. It’s amazing.

Flora has blossomed into the sweetest soul. She is affectionate, gentle, and sensitive. She loves to give kisses and head-butts (“loves”). At a year old, she says five words (Mama, Dada, Hi, Papa, and All Done); stacks blocks up to five high; turns the pages of books and studies the pictures; sorts shapes and small items into a slot with ease; and is close to cruising but not quite there yet. She loves stories, and playing whatever anyone else is playing, including sissy. And speaking of sissy, Maxine is still coming to terms with having to share and play with Flora, and every once in a while, Flora will shove or pull on Maxine’s shirt sleeve to express frustration or displeasure at being excluded or having a toy taken from her hands. It’s actually really cute and amusing to watch, but I try to not laugh out loud because I don’t want to encourage either of their behaviors.

Flora, One | February 2018
Flora, One | February 2018

It is complete joy being Flora’s mom. She has brought confidence back to my role as a mother. She restored my confidence in myself as a person, a woman, a scholar. She is the reason I chose to go back and get a Masters. And she reminds me what it is to be joyful and loving and full of the love the Spirit has for each of us. She helps me be a better mother to Maxine, which I’ve likely documented here on this blog as a challenge (more on this in a future post). Flora reminds me to be safer, to make the right decisions, to lean in. She reminds me to be gentle with others and myself. And she makes me love motherhood more than I thought possible. My favorite part of the day is walking through the door saying, “Helloooo, Baby!”, and seeing her raise her arms up for a hug. I absolutely love playing with her. She shows determination and perseverance and already has a love for learning. She watches us do something and catches on like she’s been doing it for 100 years.

I feel so proud to be the mom of this little girl, and I’m looking forward to sharing more of her (and Maxine’s) growth in this space. Take a look below at her first year.

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Flourish

In my women’s Bible study group last Friday, our lead spoke to us about her word of the year – something she chooses each year and prays on before deciding what the word will be for her. It had never occurred to me to have a word for the year – a word to focus on, to be intentional about growing with for 2017. I had another word picked out, but this word came up and it fit perfectly. In group on Friday, I shared three of my top 10 goals for the year:

  • To be more optimistic;
  • To be intentional daily about gratitude; and,
  • To hike 100 miles in 2017.

To flourish is to act intentionally to increase your well-being in a profound way. Its definition reads: “to grow or develop in a healthy or vigorous way.” Its origin is Middle English: “from Old French floriss-, lengthened stem of florir, based on Latin florere, from flos, flor- a flower. The noun senses ‘ornamental curve’ and ‘florid expression’ come from an obsolete sense of the verb, ‘adorn’ (originally with flowers).” And how appropriate is it that we welcome a new family member into 2017, named Flora?

To me, the word flourish brings to mind beautiful, colorful petal-ly blooms, like peonies (my FAVORITE!), roses, carnations, ranunculus, and dahlias. These flowers tend to have full petals. Each flower tends to have thick, full blooms, representing the many blessings in one’s life. Each February when I start to see tulips and daffodils pop up, my hope for new life is renewed. I start to clean and prepare my house for fresh air and sunshine, for room to grow, for new adventures and exploring, for longer days that allow for more opportunities for goals to be reached.

In my research on the word flourish, I came across a 52-week devotional by Margaret Feinberg titled, Flourish: Live Free, Live Loved (just published this past September!). She asks, “What would a flourishing life look like for you?” I think that is an excellent question, and especially relevant as one of my over-arching goals for 2017 is to be happier, content, and calm. To flourish as a mom, as a wife, as a friend, sister, daughter, and in my relationship with God. I have been praying for His guidance in every area of my life as every area of my life lately has felt like a great challenge and uphill battle. And I feel completely emotionally ill-equipped and frozen with anxiety to move forward at times. I feel scared about having a new baby, which makes two kids under three!

I will be following up in my blog here on “flourishing” and how my journey is going this year. I am starting the Flourish devotional this weekend, and while I can’t guarantee how much I will do once the baby arrives, I do plan on keeping up as much as possible.

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2016 Year in Review: Go crazy, punch a higher floor!

Here we are, year 12 of completing a Year in Review (though, only the second year on this blog). Can you believe it’s almost Christmas, and just a little over a week away from 2017? I am notorious for Christmas shopping at the last minute. I remember years (when I was single) shopping on Christmas eve and just feeling overwhelmed, promising myself I wouldn’t do it again. (I did, though.) Two years ago today I took a 7-week-old Maxine out for last-minute Christmas shopping. And last year I was literally trying to finish shopping for my mother-in-law on Christmas Eve while she was with me. Insanity. Why do I do this to myself?

This year, I have almost all of my gifts; there is one more arriving tomorrow, and then I’ll be done. I’m even almost done wrapping presents – with some even under the tree! That’s an accomplishment for me.

As I was reflecting on this last year, it felt very uneventful for me. I’ve been pregnant for literally half the year, but given the joy I get out of pregnancy (very low), I’m more looking forward to the arrival of Flora in 2017!

These are a few of the Year in Review questions I answered. I think they sum up well what our year looked like and outlines the most important events of the year.

Important Events in 2016

  • Became an aunt (twice), to Stella and Geneva
  • Bought our first real dining room set (used, but it’s Ethan Allan in excellent condition, and it was only $300, which is the cost of one new EA chair!)
  • Started attending New Life Church
  • Travelled to Las Vegas for the first time (for me; Nathan’s a Vegas pro)
  • Remodeled our kitchen and main floor bathroom
  • Baked cookies with Maxine
  • Traded in the Audi Q5 for a 2016 Chevy Traverse (“mom car”)

What goals did you accomplish in 2016?
I accomplished one of five goals: Made new friends (mostly at church)

What song will always remind you of 2016?
Baby Shark, by Pink Fong. Maxine is obsessed with this song (and everything shark). She listens to this song as a reward for brushing her teeth and getting ready for bed. This song is so significant that her 2016 ornament is a beautiful shark. (She’s also getting a super soft, super plush shark.)

Greatest New Musical Discovery
Beach House is pretty good! My dad introduced me to them.

Best Film 
I’m not sure if it’s a 2016 movie, but I saw it this year: The Dutch Girl. Just such a beautiful, moving and emotional film.

A valuable life lesson you learned in 2016
Take delight in the Lord , and He will give you the desires of your heart. – Psalm 37:4

A song lyric that sums up 2016
If the elevator tries to break you down, go crazy! Punch a higher floor! – Prince (Let’s’ Go Crazy). I love Prince, and I love this song. Especially since Prince’s death earlier this year. It found new meaning in my life after his passing. I find this line in particular to be powerful and uplifting, but also just a lot of fun. I need more optimism like this in my life!

Goals for 2016

  • Be more optimistic
  • Purchase all birthday cards in advance (yearly goals, haha)
  • Refinish one piece of furniture
  • Get back in shape
  • Make 1 or 2 new good, close friends
  • Hike 100 miles in 2017
  • Write 3 things daily to be grateful for
  • Write more about raising daughters, hiking, and life
  • Travel to one or two (or more) national parks this summer
  • Stay on top of Flora and Maxine’s baby books

We wish you a Morrow Christmas, and a happy new year!

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